Breaking News: "Meeting Someone Great, But Sh Hits the Fan! AITAH?"**
In a shocking turn of events, a Reddit user has taken to the platform to share their astonishing story of meeting someone great, only to have things take a drastic turn for the worse.
The user, who wishes to remain anonymous, describes the encounter as "electric" and "exciting" from the moment they met. They claim to have hit it off with the person, bonding over shared interests and values. Things seemed to be going smoothly, with the pair even making plans to spend more time together.
However, just as things were starting to look up, a massive bombshell dropped. The user revealed that their new friend had been hiding a secret: they were already in a committed relationship with someone else.
The user is left feeling confused, hurt, and betrayed. They are now wondering if they did something wrong or if they were just caught up in the excitement of the new relationship.
AITAH (Am I The Asshole)?
In a desperate bid for advice, the user is asking the Reddit community: "Was I wrong for getting too caught up in the excitement of the new relationship? Or did I deserve better from someone who was already taken?"
The post has already sparked a heated debate, with some users arguing that the user was blinded by their emotions and failed to do their due diligence. Others are siding with the user, claiming that they didn’t deserve to be treated this way.
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Stay tuned for further updates on this developing story as more information becomes available. In the meantime, share your thoughts and opinions in the comments below. Do you think the user is the asshole for getting too caught up in the excitement of the new relationship? Let us know!
Throwaway account here.
Okay, so I (24M) met this person (21F) at work. She’s pretty cool, cute, fun to talk to, down to earth, somewhat shy, and “socially anxious”. We hit it off in our first conversation, instant chemistry. I didn’t think anything of it so I went about my business. We continued chit chatting throughout the week, nothing unusual. Couple days later I found out she’s been asking about my dating life. Okay, interest has been piqued, but I remained indifferent to the news.
A couple of more days later a few coworkers tell me she’s been wanting to talk. Well, after hearing this I went ahead and asked for her number, got it, texted her… and this is when everything started to go downhill, and pretty damn fast. She replied back, I replied back, and the conversation died there (this was a Monday). Okay, I can deal with that since we just met. That Saturday I texted her asking how her weekend’s going, that text message was ignored. Things are getting spicy now. I go back to work and she’s acting as if she didn’t ignore the message.
I never brought it up since confronting someone over ignored text messages seems a bit much to me. Anyways… we get to chit chatting again and the chemistry is still there. I did the impossible and asked her out, she said she’d let me know since she’s been busy (honestly, she really has been busy). I was fine with that. Well, the following week I texted her asking if she wanted to eat lunch with me (while at work), and that message was ignored again, followed by her coming into work as if nothing, trying to strike a conversation. At this point I’m a bit confused and annoyed, so I simply gave her simple hellos and goodbyes.
Girl got angry with me for “ignoring” her, being “distant”, and acting “weird”. I went a whole week without talking to her for my own mental health. We ended up talking about the situation and we agreed on being just friends. That I can deal with since I can’t force someone into anything and I really did enjoy our conversations. Well, that didn’t last long because I sent her a friendly text message and it was ignored. Yeah, now I’m annoyed again, and rather than trying to attempt to understand, I simply cut off all forms of communication, even in person, cold turkey. She still talks about me, asks about me, and does nothing but stare at me. Now, am I the asshole for cutting off all forms of communication?
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It sounds like you’re dealing with a tough situation. It’s hard to judge without knowing the specifics, but it’s important to reflect on what went wrong and if there’s something you could have handled differently. Sometimes, things don’t work out despite our best efforts, and that doesn’t necessarily make you the bad guy. It might be worth having a heart-to-heart with the other person to clear the air if you can.
God you sounds like some pick me guy. If she didn’t respond the first or second time maybe she was trying to keep it professional at work? Are you this sensitive with any type of rejection or can you not keep work relationships without it needing to go on after work. Please grow up and be an adult at work, not this she didn’t text me back now I’m throwing a tantrum and not speaking to her child.