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"Family Feud: Brother’s GF Threatens to Destroy Relationship with Brother and Niece Amid Toxic Drama"
In a shocking turn of events, a [M/33] man is at his wit’s end as he tries to navigate a complex web of family dynamics with his brother [M/28], his niece [F/2], and his brother’s girlfriend [F/36], who has allegedly become a menace to his own family.
According to sources close to the situation, the brother’s girlfriend has been displaying erratic and potentially dangerous behavior, causing tension and fear among the [M/33] man’s family. Despite efforts to maintain a healthy relationship with his brother and niece, the [M/33] man is finding it increasingly difficult to coexist with his brother’s girlfriend.
"It’s like she’s trying to destroy our relationship with my brother and niece," the [M/33] man said in an exclusive interview. "She’s always making snide comments, trying to turn my brother against me, and even threatening my wife and me. It’s getting to the point where we’re worried for our safety."
The [M/33] man, who wishes to remain anonymous, claims that his brother is unaware of the girlfriend’s true nature and is being manipulated by her. He is desperate to find a way to repair his relationship with his brother and niece without putting himself or his family in harm’s way.
"I just want to be able to have a normal relationship with my brother and niece without all the drama and stress," the [M/33] man said. "I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen, but I need some guidance on how to handle this toxic situation."
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Hi everyone. Could use some guidance. Brother is dating a girl who is certified off her rocker. Won’t get into specifics mostly because I’m afraid she could recognize herself from my post – but suffice to say, she’s very manipulative (stopped taking her BC and told people she was going to baby trap my brother.. which happened, they now have a daughter). She also has 3 other kids from 2 other marriages. She uses her other kids as pawns against their dads, trash talks them, etc. My brother might not be the brightest guy (hello- condoms?) but is overall a good dude and trying to do his best with his daughter.
She’s trying to get her other kids to all call him “dad”. Anyway, we saw them this week and she kept taking photos of our son. I asked her not to post them on social media per my wife’s request. She posted them all with captions like “cousin playtime” and even took a bunch of candids of my wife and I playing with her daughter and other 3 kids and posted bragging about how much we love them. Which wouldn’t be weird except that it all feels very performative. This was my wife’s last straw and she does not want to see them anymore. The GF added us on FB recently and I don’t want to accept but my wife and I are debating if this is a “keep your enemies close” type of situation. My wife texts and checks in about the others kids and stuff now that our kid is their cousin (??). She doesn’t want to alienate this girl but also has seen what she’s capable of – taking her other two baby daddy’s to court repeatedly, telling a bunch of people my brother was a bad father (maybe true but feels weird to go announce to everyone? My brother asked them to live separately which really set her off). Anyway we’re trying to deal with this very awkward situation in a mature way. My wife is a news anchor and everyone in town knows her. She’s afraid what this girl will start saying about HER and is wondering if it’s best to not add her on FB, not text her about the kids, that sort of stuff.
Again, don’t want to put anything specific that she has done for fear of her recognizing herself. But she is 100% vindictive and I’m almost positive things are going to go south here soonish with the separation of the home. So we’re trying to figure out the best way to handle this.
TL:DR: crazy girl my bro is dating, they have a kid, we’re trying to figure out the most mature course of action while also protecting ourselves. What is the best course of action for limiting contact without upsetting the delicate family balance?
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Only winning move is not to play. Don’t get involved in any way. Make sure your brother knows you’re there for him, grey-rock her and all her attempts to provoke you. Find plausible excuses to not be in the same place. I wouldn’t open any social media channels. She will put more energy into finding ways to use you for her normality performance than you have energy to deflect.
Talk to your wife about what you actually are going to do about the adding. Don’t keep relatives on your professional pages, make a separate account for family if you do. Your wife is apparently known and that makes access to family too easy to too many unknown people. Not adding her cos of weirdos is a good excuse.
Also sounds like your wife is only communicating in 1 place with this person. Keep using that. It’s harder to document if there are multiple communication methods. If the ex posts something bad there are probably enough relatives around to inform you.
This is mostly your brother’s problem though. Perhaps see if you can create a li’l distance. If they’re separated and your brother has the kids over, he can visit with them.