My childhood friend snd my abroad friend has gotten pregnant and what should i about their mentallity in this situation.

Hello there im '20M' years old and my friends are '20M' and '22F' years old.
We are from a non english dominant country from asia but right now me and the '22F' years old friend and i are in abroad studying. Me and the '20M' were friends from elementary school and me and the '22F' friend have been friends after i have went to abroad. And these 2 met each other while she went back to our country for 2 weeks and became friends. I have been studying abroad for almost a year now.
In my opinion people in an asian country dont tend to have an impact on their mental as much and i just wanna help them because their way of coping with problems and situations are really horrible in my opinion.
These 2 have such big but fragile egos that they run away from everything that they find uncomfortable for them even if it is little.
The male friend and me have always been together but right before i have gone abroad he was sent to the military and has been discharged after a year and right now doesnt know what to do with his life but has chosen a to be a tattoo artist and is practicing for that. He has an anger issue and has been in a toxic relationship with his girlfriend for over 5 years now, always fighting and arguing over jealousy and control. And he has a way of coping with playing with women for their body. i have tried to tell him about it but has always been unsuccessful. He bottles away his emotion and such but from time to time he opens up to me. But right now im not next to him at the moment and he doesnt have anyone to open up about it and we have not seen each other for almost a year and a half. His anger and jealousy has been always really bad and now he runs away from responsibilities by playing jokes and doesnt talk seriously to anyone. If he has a problem its a way to cope with alcohol cigarettes and women. And i want to help him but i dont really know what to do because im not next to him. He had a pretty harsh but free life. His grandmother has just passed away so it must be even harder for him right now. And then comes in my other friend 22(F). She had a pretty fulfilled life with her family but not a much expressive life. She thinks a lot but also bottles away her feelings as well and doesnt express her feelings that much. Isnt very sentimental because of how she was treated about everything because she almost had everything and gets everything she wants. She doesnt like responsibilities as well and runs away from problems and doesnt express them but always thinks about them and over thinks about it and goes off of it from there, without any confrontation from anyone. These 2 doesnt like to hear anything from anyone and if they have been told off their pride and ego gets a hold of themselves and thinks of them as a "bad" person. And her way of coping is from drugs as well.

And now here is the situation.

When she went back to our country to meet because i thought he might be alone and needed a friend i told them to meet (i have school and work to pay off my school fee's so i cant go back to my country because im pretty low on money) and have fun. But they played around a bit became friends but after a week i heard the news that she has become pregnant with his child. Because at that time he had a fight the his girlfriend and played around with her and gotten her pregnant. They talked about it and has decided to keep the baby and even named it a fetus name and such sort. I have asked what he wanted to do but he just avoids the question and doesnt even answer me so gave him his own time to think and wishes for him to talk to me when he is ready. She was devastated but comes to the point to keep the baby and talked with her parents and even made him meet his father and friends. But he was still kidding around and still playing it off it seems. And when she went from lur country to continue studying after a few days, it seems like he might be playing with other girls to cope and she found out because she went into his dm to see who he is chatting with. And she is willing to accept him because obviously there is no love involved but for the baby's future and just wanted his commitment to be by her side and just support her. But he is not giving an straight answer and is avoiding all of pieces by just joking it off or being angry about it. She is not confronting him as well and just over thinking about it and going off of it being depressed and stressing herself out. He is also thinking about it inside as well if i know my friend.

I have been trying hardest to keep her in check and calm herself down and have been giving advices. I understand what they are going through. I tried to understanding about them but none of them listens to me seriously. They are listening and taking my advices but they expressing it to me as a joke for them. It seems like im just yapping about it for them. But im being patient and giving their own time and trying ti calm them down.
But now i dont know what he wants to do or what to do about it. What about his girlfriend, what about these 2's life, what he wants to do, i really dont know. She is contemplating wether to raise the child alone but still cares about him. They have been in contact or know each other for almost 20 days now. But she thinks and acts like what he will do or what will happen and knows what he will do sourced by her own mind.

I really dont know what to do im just worried for their life and just needed some help and vent if there are some advice that would really help as well.