Breaking News: AITAH for Throwing Party after Being Proven Not to be Baby’s Father?
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In a shocking turn of events, a former romantic partner has sparked heated debates on social media by celebrating a party after learning he is not the biological father of his ex-girlfriend’s child. The man, who wishes to remain anonymous, took to online forums to share his decision, citing his "closure" and "newfound freedom" as the reasons behind his decision.
"AITAH (Am I The Asshole) for throwing a party after the paternity test confirmed I’m not the dad?" the anonymous individual posted online. "I know it sounds weird, but hearing that I’m not the father has given me a huge weight off my shoulders. I’m free from all the stress and drama that came with thinking I was a father."
Reactions to the post have been mixed, with some users commending the man for being honest and seeking closure, while others have criticized him for being selfish and insensitive.
"This is just selfish and ridiculous," commented one user. "The real question is, why did you throw a party about something that should be a private matter?"
Another user defended the individual, stating, "Why can’t he be happy about finally knowing the truth? He’s not a father, and he doesn’t have to deal with the emotional and financial burdens that come with it. Good for him for throwing a party and moving on with his life."
As the debate continues to unfold, many are left wondering: what is the proper etiquette for handling unexpected family news, and should someone celebrate the outcome of a paternity test? One thing is certain: the drama surrounding this story will likely continue to make headlines for weeks to come.
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So I (28m) have been getting a lot of shit from my family for this. I dated my girlfriend Emma (28f) for about 3 years. My family REALLY loved her, like it was clear they wanted us to get married
And truth be told, I figured it was heading that way too. Well, things took a sudden turn when she unexpectedly announced she was pregnant. This came as a shock to me, given that we'd both used birth control
I asked her if she'd consider an abortion, and she refused. When she broke the news to my family, they were ecstatic. My mom and dad were overjoyed that they'd be having a grandchild. My two sisters (23f and 32f) were also going crazy over it. Basically, they had the opposite reaction to me
I began preparing to man up but really didn't want to. Well, after I had come to terms with it, I was pretty much resigned to the situation. So I supported her
However, I couldn't help but feel weird given that we had both taken measures to prevent this. I ended up snooping through her phone and lo behold, she had been cheating on me
I was devastated but as fucked up as it sounds, kind of prepared for it. This wasn't the first time I'd been cheated on. I confronted her and she broke down in tears, you know, the usual typical cheater routine. I'm honestly fucking tired of it. So I demanded a paternity test, I knew it was possible to get them during pregnancy. They're just expensive
I expected her to put up resistance, but surprisingly she didn't. I don't know why, but I guess she really thought if she agreed to this, then it'd make me trust her more or something? A risk on her part but I'm fucking glad it went through. It came back as not mine
Her reaction to that news was to break down but my reaction was pure bliss and relief. Since then, I've cut her off and just went on with my life. I often switch between being depressed as fuck by her cheating to just dancing around in happiness
So recently, I decided to throw a bit of a celebration. My parents were cool with me doing this at their place (my place is too small to throw a decent get together). So I invited a bunch of my buddies (6-7 of us) to celebrate. We had pizza, balloons, drinks, etc. It looked like a birthday party. My buddies even got me a cake which says ''you are NOT the father'' as a joke. We all celebrated. Well my sisters are also staying over at my parents place for a while and when they came back, they asked what was going on. I told them it's a celebration for me finding out I'm not the father. They already knew I had learned I wasn't, but their response after the party was to say that my celebration was ''trashy'' and ''gross''
I don't understand why they're coming at me like that. AITAH over this?
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NTA, your cheating ex-girlfriend is. I also would have been relieved in such a situation. Maybe not to an extend to throw a party, but I would have definitely treated myself to a nice meal or something like that đ
NTA, you have a right to celebrate any news as you please, as long as you are not hurting anybody and you weren’t so, your news, your life, your choice…
NTA. You got rid of a cheater and are free and clear of any responsibility for her kid. I’d say that’s a cause for celebration. If you want to be an asshole about it I would ask your sisters if this hit a little too close to home and if any of their exes had reasons to celebrate their breakups before calling it gross or trashy.
NTA, I think it’s hilarious.