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Are You The Asshole (AITA) for Getting Revenge on Your Husband? Here’s the Story.
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A recent incident has raised questions about the boundaries of marriage and the extent to which one can go in seeking revenge. In a shocking turn of events, a woman has taken the internet by storm by admitting to getting revenge on her husband after discovering his infidelity.
According to the post, the woman, who chose to remain anonymous, claimed that her husband had been cheating on her for several months before she discovered his lies. Feeling betrayed and hurt, she decided to take matters into her own hands and get revenge in the most unexpected way.
"I found out he was cheating on me and my world came crashing down. I was devastated, hurt, and angry. So, I decided to get revenge," she wrote on a popular online forum. "I started by sabotaging his work by emailing his boss and making fake claims about him. I also started spreading rumors about him being unfaithful to his friends and colleagues."
The post has sparked a heated debate, with some people defending the woman’s actions and others condemning them. While some argue that the woman was justified in seeking revenge, others claim that her actions were out of line and only added to the chaos in the marriage.
"I think what she did was absolutely cruel and heartless," commented one user. "Getting revenge is not the solution to a broken marriage. It only makes things worse."
On the other hand, some users defended the woman’s actions, saying that she had every right to feel angry and hurt.
"If my husband cheated on me, I would definitely seek revenge," wrote another user. "I would expose him to the world, ruin his reputation, and make him suffer like he made me suffer."
This incident raises important questions about the boundaries of marriage and the extent to which one can go in seeking revenge. While some may see the woman’s actions as justified, others may see them as cruel and destructive.
What do you think? Are you the asshole for getting revenge on your husband? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
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DISCLAIMER: This is a fictional story, and the events described above are not real. Revenge and infidelity are never acceptable in a relationship and can lead to serious harm and damage.
I pretty much know I'm an asshole because I feel like I am so I know I did wrong. Mainly my question is how much of an asshole am I?
My husband (45M) and I (44F) had only been married 2 years. We had a happy loving relationship before we got married but as soon as we said I do it all went downhill. It was obvious he regretted it from the start. We didn't consummate our marriage for over a month. He pretty much stopped talking to me and cut me out of his life. Then he took off and abandoned me. I had a stroke and for the first time in our relationship I needed him. It was always me taking care of him until then. He struggled with a drug addiction and when he did work he didn't make much. He had left during drug binges before and everytime he cheated on me but I always forgave and took him back.
After the stroke (minor) I couldn't work for a bit and needed help. He couldn't handle the pressure and left. He was gone around 3 months when we started talking again and decided to work it out.
While talking the expressed regret for how he had acted and swore to me he would stand by my side no matter what from there on out. He has been a race car driver as a hobby his whole life and it is his passion. At the time we were getting back together, a friend of his put him in touch with someone who had just bought a race car and was looking for a driver. He got in touch with them and it worked out he was going to race their car. He made a point of telling me that he knows he threw me away for stupid reasons in the past and would not choose this car over me if it came down to it.
During this time I was still having some medical problems and my doctor was doing a lot of tests. I was getting sick all the time and couldn't keep up with all the time and effort it took to get the race car ready and go to all the races. I was also having lots of doctor's appointments for the tests. I never once asked him to go with me for any of the tests because I knew he was busy with the race car but when it came time to get the results my doctor called me ahead of time and told me I should bring someone for support. I told him about this and he promised he would go with me to the doctor's appointment. When the day came however the car needed work for a race the next day and he didn't show up. I got devastating news that I have two autoimmune disorders and one of them is killing me. My doctor said I probably have 10 good years left before I start getting very sick. I was very emotional and tried calling him to talk after the appointment. He yelled at me on the phone for interrupting his personal time and then I found out afterwards instead of coming home he went and bought drugs and was gone all night. Dad started a fight in a couple of days later he left again. Blocked me on his phone, blocked me on Facebook, zero communication. A couple weeks went by and I was so hurt and angry I wanted to hurt him as bad. I knew one of the guys on his team liked me so I messaged him one night and he came over. We didn't have intercourse but things happened. A couple of days later he decided to come home. He asked me if anything happened while he was gone and I told him the truth. Since then he is not come home. He goes around telling everyone I'm a cheating whore. He never tells anyone of all the times he cheated every time he ran out on me. I feel bad about what I did and I regret it but after everything he did how much of an asshole am I really?
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Dang, that’s a tough situation. Honestly, I feel you—being abandoned like that over and over, especially when you were at your lowest, is just brutal. You didn’t deserve that. I get why you lashed out, like you were just trying to feel something after all the hurt he caused you. It’s messy, but you’re human. Yeah, maybe what you did wasn’t right, but compared to how he treated you, I don’t think you’re the only one at fault here. He’s got his own stuff to answer for too. Don’t beat yourself up too much—you’ve been through a lot.
NTA. Your husband abandoned you when you needed him the most and even after promising to stand by your side, he still chose his race car and drugs over you. You had every right to seek comfort and revenge in the form of a one-time encounter with someone who actually showed you care and support. Your husband’s actions and words show that he is the true asshole in this situation. Take care of yourself and do what makes you happy, not what makes your husband happy.
Your husband is a neglectful, cheating AH.
You wanted to hurt him, and you did. You wanted things to end with permanence, and they did. Unfortunately, you’re a cheating AH too.
NTA, but I think you should get out and move on. Autoimmune diseases feed on your stress and poor health habits. You can see specialists who deal with inflammation, and mindful living to prolong your life. I urge you to do that.
NTA. You were fed up with his constant abandonment and cheating, and you were vulnerable after your stroke. While cheating is never the answer, it’s understandable that you were hurt and wanted to hurt him back. Your husband was TA for abandoning you when you needed him most and for not standing by your side during your medical appointments. He should take responsibility for his actions instead of deflecting and making you out to be the villain. You deserve better and he is the true asshole in this situation.
Nta. That was neither a marriage nor a healthy relationship. Please move away from this relationship for your own health- stress and emotional trauma will only exasperate your symptoms of the autoimmune diseases. And if the dude that you called over is a healthy nice guy maybe figure out what type of relationship you want for the rest of your life.