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I had a gut feeling and went through my husbands phone. I found a chat with his friend where he was asking about exchanging pictures like they had done in the past (news to me)
I brought this up to him the next day and he was like a deer in the headlights. Said I was never supposed to find out, it was a mistake, he doesn’t know what’s wrong with him. Then went on about how wonderful I am and it’s not me.
Apparently about a year ago (for reasons unknown to me) they showed one another nude pictures of their wives. According to texts the pictures were sent to each of their phones. Fast forward to present day, and my husband asked his friend for more images of his wife. He played it off like he had too much to drink and told him to forget the ever said it.
I can’t shake the feeling that there’s more to this, but he won’t tell me.
We have two kids together, and have been married for 8 years. I’m so sick about it, I just don’t know what to do. There’s no trust, and what’s marriage without that.
tl;dr Husband cheated (I consider this cheating) and I’m worried there’s more to it.
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He is only sorry he got caught.
I think a lot of guys do this growing up as a way to prove what they’re saying is happening or to get some respect/praise from friends. My friends did it and although I didn’t do it I still looked and didn’t judge them for it. They also never “sent” anything. The nude was a private possession they would show but not share. They grew out of it though. All of them that I stayed in contact with all the way through my early twenties and the new friends I made since then, we share intimate stuff but, would never think about asking to share nudes with me or asking me to share nudes with them. Once you’re older it’s either kinky or gross or both depending all on how you feel about it. All that said, if my partner shared nudes of me to her friends I would be mortified and although I don’t think I’d divorce over it I would certainly have no trust in them for a *long* *long* time.
Sadly you’re heading for divorce. When you catch liars in a lie all they learn is how to hide better. You have gaslighting to look forward to and the total dissolution of the little trust you’ve got left.
I think it’s a divorce able offense, I really do.
Why would any dude would want their friends jerking off to nudes of their wife.
There are a couple of rules when you become a husband. One of them is don’t be a scumbag
Gross! Without permission, sharing nude photos of others is illegal in Canada ( not public porn but private photos)
It’s not the cheating, it’s the violating your personal privacy and rights and not caring about your consent.
He’s supposed to protect you, and he’s proven to be extremely untrustworthy.
Oh I’m so sorry, that really is awful. He’s ruined your family unit, what an asshole
This is disgusting. He is sharing nudes of you with friends and receiving nudes so they can either jerk off or pursued a relationship with another women. There is no respect for you or the other SO or wives. You are regarded as a possession which you can be traded or barter with.