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Am I Responsible for My Partner’s Mental Health?
A couple’s mental well-being can be a delicate dance, with lines often blurred between responsibility and support. The question on everyone’s mind is: am I responsible for my partner’s mental health? Our experts weigh in on this timely topic.
THE SITUATION
Meet 22-year-old Emma, who’s been dating her partner, Alex, for three years. Emma has always been supportive of Alex’s struggles with anxiety, offering a listening ear and helping him cope with his symptoms. But as time goes on, Emma’s starting to feel the weight of responsibility. "I love Alex, but I don’t want to carry the burden of his mental health on my own," she confides. "I want us to be equal partners, but it feels like I’m always the one initiating conversations and making plans to help him feel better."
EXPERT OPINION
Dr. Sarah Jones, a licensed therapist, sheds light on the topic: "While it’s wonderful that Emma is supportive, it’s crucial to recognize that her partner’s mental health is ultimately their responsibility. Emma can offer support and care, but she can’t single-handedly fix Alex’s mental health struggles."
THE BLURRING OF RESPONSIBILITY
But what about when it feels like you’re shouldering the load? Dr. Jones advises, "It’s essential to have open communication with your partner about your needs and boundaries. Make it clear that you’re willing to support them, but you also need to prioritize your own mental well-being. This way, you can work together as a team, rather than one person carrying the weight."
CASE STUDIES
- Sarah and Mike: Sarah has always been the strong, silent type, while Mike has struggled with depression. Despite their efforts to communicate, Sarah often feels like she’s shouldering the responsibility. "I feel like I’m constantly walking on eggshells, worried that Mike will have a meltdown if I don’t do things a certain way."
- Rachel and Ryan: Rachel has been dealing with anxiety for years, while Ryan has learned to adapt and support her. "Ryan has been amazing," Rachel says. "He knows when I need space or a distraction, and he’s always willing to lend a listening ear. It feels like we’re a team, working together to navigate my mental health."
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CONCLUSION
While it’s natural to feel responsible for your partner’s well-being, it’s essential to recognize that mental health is a two-way street. By communicating openly and setting boundaries, you can work together as a team to support each other’s mental health. Remember, taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your partner.
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I'll give you the quick context before jumping into the story, so bare with me:
We're from Venezuela, if you've been keeping with the news, there's been political unrest after the government seemingly stole the elections at the end of July; me (24M) and my partner (22F) have been together for now over 5 years, and we're mostly inseparable (with the ups and downs that it can bring); after the failed election, as I said, there's been a lot of turmoil around, and my dad decided to take me and my brother out of the country for a few days to see how stuff evolved and keep us safe, as young men specially are targets of regime repression (and I know this sounds privileged, but it's far from it as my dad works his ass off as a migrant to give us a chance, as income is very low in the country).So the whole trip had to be put together in an instant, we went to Colombia and are staying with family to ease the cost.
During all this, my partner, she's not been well, as on top of the daily stress the political situation causes, this year she's been through some big emotional rough patches (pet deaths, bad decisions, stress and general dealing with mental health), and the trip really didn't sit well with her, and as we do everything together, beomg this apart and this quick has hit her, to the point where I have to scold her cause she makes up elaborate plans to go around on her own till late while on foot cause she says "no one waits for her back home", and keeping me worried.
A few days ago she spent all day angry at me, telling me how things didn't work out, how she didn't want me anymore, saying things about my parents' relationship and ours, and at one point even threatening to flirt with other guys to "be even" since I was abroad and she saw it as it being even somehow. Thankfully I managed to cool her jets and get her to talk more with me and apologized and we talked as we always did, but she still did do the same on later days, when she started again making plans that would take her to the other side of the city, very late, very on her own.
She's luckily realized and went home afterwards, late but did it, but I'm generally stressed out with this, she knows she's not okay, she says she feels like she doesn't matter, that she's alone, she insists no one's waiting for her back home, she has constant mood swings (we've had problems before cause she was very much aggressive and short tempered to the point of slapping me, but she somewhat worked it out), to me she's sadly depressed, and she doesn't want to talk to anyone, she doesn't like socializing, or sees her family in a hostile way (lots of religious trauma as they're JW and haven't been good at times, but she still lives with them cause it's hard to become independent here), what can I do about this? About her?
Tl;dr: My GF who's probably depressed is having a hard time with me being outside our country, she has mood swings and threatened with cheating on me, feels lonely and like she doesn't matter, but doesn't wanna do therapy or socialize, what can I do?
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No, you are not her therapist and her punching bag. Respect yourself.
She’s hit you before, she’ll continue to hit you again eventually. Never tolerate physical and emotional abuse in a relationship. Walk away and find someone much better.