Breaking News: Shocking Twist as Ex-Boyfriend Ends Relationships via Text Message – Dating Disasters Get a Glimpse of Exclusive Insights on How to Pick Up the Pieces!
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Introduction:
In the 4th quarter of the millennial era, breaking a relationship via a digital sphere has become all too too common. Just days past, a chilling message crossed the screens of thousands globally, leaving scores reeling from the jolt to their emotional system. Let’s dive straight into [Breaking News]:
Ex-Couple’s Drama: Unexpected Text Message Fallout!
Reportedly, an otherwise 4-year romance imploding in a devastating sequence played out in plain sight after the 27-year old boyfriend, Alex, shocked his 32-yearold partner, Samantha, late one fateful eve of a Saturday with the cruel, heart-stinging digits: "We should keep things between friends"
Instantly, Sam found out that the door, no matter how bruised those four years have left; the door slamming shut by her ex seemed permanent without any room for sentimentals. As Alex disconcertingly disowned her at the touch of his glass screen, emotions burst beneath the surface
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First of all, I’d like to mention that I’m not a native English speaker, so sorry in advance if anything is unclear.
We have been dating for 1,5 years. The thing is I’m an expat in the country I am currently based in, and my ex-boyfriend is a local. My decision to move here was a forced one due to political repressions. I’m living on my own, working, working out, having hobbies and interests. Since 2020 I’m in treatment for depression, that worsened by my forced migration.
Everything started good, I felt very attracted to him, he was quite creative in planning dates, we have lots of common interests (anime, video games, art, literature), matching sense of humor, great comparability in sex and overall approach to life/professional development. After 4 months of dating he said he loves me and it was mutual.
Overall he is quite reserved and rarely talks about relationship of his feelings/needs.
We do have lots of nice and joyful memories, traveling across the country, trying new food, having creative dates (painting, writing together).
Over last half of the year I started to be concerned about the development of our relationship: my bf didn’t introduce me to his family or friends, we are not staying overnight together, there was no discussion about moving in together, he hasn’t ever posted a photo of us together in social media, the frequency of us meeting up remained the same: 1-2 times per week for 4-5 hours. For me everything started to look like FWB, which I brought up to him a couple of times. His response and explanation was that there was a lot of responsibilities and things to take care of in his life right now, so he was doing his best. He is playing a role of caretaker and provider in his parental family due to his father passed away when my bf was a little kid.
Another critical thing is that I cannot get permanent residence permit in the country I’m staying (the only option for me is marriage). In that sense I feel very vulnerable and unsafe, anxious – all of my friends and acquaintances who happened to be here due to the same unfortunate circumstances are planing or have already moved to other countries where they can live legally with a possibility of getting prp or citizenship. I feel like I lost my home once, and will have to move again, which was and will be emotionally a very difficult process for me.
Overall last year I had a couple of nervous breakdowns related to the news from my home country and loss of connections here, missing my family that I haven’t seen for 3 years. Every time I told him about how I feel, he would ask if he could help me in any way, I would reply that I’d love to spend more time together, but almost nothing has changed. There were some minor improvements for short period of time but then I found myself in a cycle where we have a quarrel, then he gets warmer, and then he turns cold and distant and I feel like being neglected and pushed away.
Last month I was very upset nothing is changing, so I explained to him that if nothing changes I cannot stay in this relationship. He said let’s give us a chance and that he will try.
Last week I felt very exhausted and mentally on the edge, we discussed that. Next day my bf didn’t feel well because he has a seizure. I called him right away asking whether he needs any help, stating I can finish work and come to his places. He rejected my suggestion and said he gonna rest.
I was checking in on him for a couple of days, even though I also felt quite depressed. On the weekend he broke up with me via text messages, saying he doesn’t want to be an obstacle for me to move to another country, he loves me and cares for me, but is not capable of providing me what I deserve. I was very shocked and surprised by such a choice of handling things.
A couple of days after I texted him stating I find this situation quite strange. From his point of view I acted cold and indifferent and should have come to his place, even though he declined my suggestion to come. He got injured because of the seizure and was not feeling well, and expected me to be more engaged. We agreed upon meeting in person to discuss what happened, as he stated he feels shitty and doesn’t know what he wants.
How do I proceed with this?
Thank you very much in advance for your advice!
TDLR: no development in relationship over 1,5 years, different legal status, we both have chronic disease (depression and epilepsy), my bf (27m) broke up with me (32f) via text messages.
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The way you put it, reads to me like you’re now free from a dead end relationship. The way you put it, the guy wasn’t willing to be part of moving of the relationship forward. He didn’t even give you the courtesy, after all the time you were together, to break up with you in person. You were only worth a few strokes of his fingers to create the text. That was his level of investment in you. I believe that action alone speaks volumes about how he truly felt about you.
You ask, “How do I proceed with this?” It reads to me like you have a lot of personal issues that you’re now free to focus on if you wish to. Take each day one day at a time. Do what you can to work on improving the quality of your life. I wish you the best.