AITJ for hating on my friend’s wife and doing these things to her cause I hate and despise her ??

So I'm having some issues with my friends and their spouses or partners and I've about had it with them as my lid is about to come off. I have a friend who we will call by Sam and Sam is married and I absolutely hate and despise her. She was the one who wanted Sam to cancel my florida trip which I have been planning with him for the past 4 years just so that she can let him stay at home with her and screw her. They wanted to have a kid by next year as they say but they are planning all of these trips together. They got a trip to europe planned next year and he is also going to be going to Florida with her as well this winter. I'm very angry when I heard this news and I want to literally black mail her. I've thought about prank calling places using her number on a caller ID spoofing app and say something to these places. I've thought about saying something so insane that they will dispatch Fire, EMS, Police and other specialty squads. I'm just upset at her and so I literally want to ruin her life. Then not only her, I want to do my friend Paxton's GF Becky too as well as I'm upset at her for trying to get back with him. I heard from someone else that she might have reached back out at Paxton. One of my other friends who we will call by Andy and Andy called again today. He told me that I'm a horrible friend and that I deserve to be locked up as he thinks that I'm a "psycho" according to my Youtube channel and my actions and how I act. Basically he is attacking me and accusing me of stalking singers and going on rage rants and act like a 12 year old as he claims. I never did anything wrong so no one can lock me up and ranting is not illegal or a crime in any fashion. Everyone is upset at me including my male therapist who claims that he is going to submit a request to probate court to get me commited for his claims of "stalking and raging and acting like a danger to others.". There's nothing wrong with me and there's nothing wrong with going on an rant and expressing how upset that you are. That's why I'm still out here cause I have not commited a crime. Does it make me a jerk for wanting to get back at her ??